The Four Agreements In The Classroom

The second of the agreements, the social agreement, answers the question: “Who do we want to be when we are together?” After we have all developed a personal agreement, once we are all aware of what we want to be, we must reach a consensus together on how we want to deal with each other. To establish a social agreement, we must all have a sense of connection with all the other members of the group and there must be a minimum of trust among the members of the group. In a school, social conventions can usually be summarized as follows: “We want to learn, be respectful, be responsible and safe.” In the classroom, this idea can manifest itself by the angry or angry child/student that you have in their anger nasty, ugly and hateful things. It`s not about you! Don`t take it personally! But YES, you are ashamed of the situation that awaits you. The third type of agreement, the role agreement, answers the question: “What is my role in getting us where we want to go?” If you are sitting in our family car on the shotgun seat (front seat, passenger side), you play the role of the navigator. This is our long-standing family arrangement. In a classroom, it is best if all adults and students involved in the room are present during the role hearing. The process of discussion and compromise in defining roles lays the foundation for a successful school year, during which many dangers and obstacles will be avoided. Teaching roles allows students to know what to expect and helps develop a safe risk environment. Below are the agreements as expressed by Don Miguel Ruiz in the Four Agreements, as well as some reflections on how each relates to our teaching: you – as a person – are not simply the work you do in the classroom or in the artistic presentations you do for the community.

You have so much more value than that. While there were certainly some areas that I was questioning and even taking a step back, I found that the four agreements could offer educators a way to thrive in their work and regain the joy of working. Have you heard of the four agreements? Nor did I get it until I attended a conference where the speaker shared it with the audience. When I returned from the conference, I immediately ordered the book from Amazon. Another example is when a school principal comes to math class in a classroom teacher and says, “Why are children just sitting here and making worksheets? Why don`t you have them in the centers? ». It seems like they have a personal judgment about your skills as teachers and they make that call before they know all the details. If these four agreements are introduced at the beginning of the school year, the processes that create rituals and routines that highlight these agreements will serve as the basis for effective task management and relationships in the classroom. . .